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The truth about relationship compatibility

Here’s the thing, you’ve at last met someone and you think you’re compatible with that person in almost everything. For example, you’re both big on family, you’re both avid readers, the body is just perfect, you both like taking things slow, you love the same type of music and you both share the same love for gardening. And yet for some reason, something about the relationship just doesn’t feel complete. If this situation resonates with you, here’s the reason why:

It’s important to remember that human beings are three dimensional! They’re in three parts that is, soul, spirit and physical body. What compatability tests do is to test if your souls are compatible, but not the other two parts of the human being! In actual fact, of the three parts, the most important part is the spirit, not the soul. Compatability tests ought to test the spirits compatibility, once that’s aligned, everything else will fall into place.

I’m not at all saying that once you’re on the same page spiritually, then you will never have disagreements but, it’s a solid foundation for your relationship. If your spiritual walk is not at par, don’t bother at all! The relationship might work out but, it’s very rare.

In actuality, humans are spiritual beings with a body and soul. Precedence is given to the spirit because we are spirits first before we have a physical body and a soul.

When the spirits are not in sync, even if the souls are, it will not last…. Just think about it. When the spirits are connected the rest will be easy. It’s really important to be honest with each other about spiritual beliefs. It is the core of every relationship.

Relationships are not after all a ‘heart thing’ but a ‘soul thing’ . That’s why intimacy doesn’t form ‘heart ties’ but ‘soul ties’. It is also the reason why we say love is blind, well, it’s not blind. Our spirits fall in love, there is no colour, age, outward beauty or language in the spirit realm. This is the essence of true love.

About Constance van Niekerk

Constance van Niekerk, (Connie V) is a creative writer, poet, music lover, spoken word artist, freelance writer, blogger and educator. She has contributed to several anthologies and published her own collection, Echoes of My Heart: A Poetry Collection available for purchase on all Amazon Stores Worldwide. Follow her on Twitter : @convanniekerk Connect with her on Facebook and Linkedin.


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