When people fall in love, they have a tendency of shutting their eyes, then they say love is blind. It’s not. Love’s eyesight is perfectly okay. It sees imperfections and decides to overlook. It sees everything and sometimes ignores. But it does see! The heart maybe, decides to operate free from the mind… who knows all the nonsense that happen when people fall in love. But, in all this… can we take responsibilities for our mess? If we date, and you decide to buy me a phone worth R20 000, it is mine! You didn’t loan it to me. You bought it for me. I always tell people, when you are in a relationship, do only things you can live with after the relationship. Have a clear conscious. No-one is holding a gun to your head to buy phones, sneakers from overseas and whatever else! If you allow that broke man to live in your house without any obligations…. then live with it. We can never grow until we start taking responsibility for our actions…. If indeed love is blind, then open up your eyes! Stay woke.
Oh, about Zodwa Wabantu… here is her voice message to ex boyfriend, @vusie_bokison.
Vusi, I am not scared, I have been quiet but listen here, I want the police and anyone who sees you to catch you. You are a fraudster. You are young and I have been thinking about your future and I have not wanted to do anything that will make me look crazy but I have proof that you are a fraudster.
I can’t believe I was with a fraudster. Why are you angry? The phone you use I bought it, it’s my R20 000. The watch you wear and pose with, I bought it for you for R18 000. Sneakers from overseas, USA, Dubai, Australia, you name it.
You slept in my house for a year, I paid for everything. You used my contacts and connections to get a new Audi because you knew my name would help you. Please give me back everything that is mine, I am coming for you and I am not scaredZodwa Wabantu
Well, Vusi had this to say: